Cruel, I know. Yes, it's true, I just had you read part of the Wheaton Community Covenant...again. Do not sigh in angst nor turn away in frustration from these constraining authoritative walls that impede upon your personal right to exercise freedom when it comes to the decision of alcohol consumption. First give me a chance to explain why I have included them in my blog.
This past Wednesday night was a party at Mama Kuki's place. Past student's she has housed were visiting from France and Ecuador and with such honored guests in town she could not pass up the opportunity to for some mojito magic. Our French friend made crepes, everyone brought a different filling, and Mama Kuki blended up some yerba buena-lime mojitos. With a crowd of 7 young adults, tongues were licking their lips waiting for the first round to be poured and the laughter to start. I however, being the responsible and dedicated Wheaton student that I am (*cough) had to ask for mine "fresca" which in Costa Rica means <sin alcohol>. No big deal! Great idea! Let's make a whole other batch without alcohol! My stance was widely accepted.
One of the people at the table then asked if most people followed their commitment to not drink. It was so easy for me to say "yes, absolutely" because I know this to be true. I did not hide the fact that many people do not agree with the rule, and there are those who do not obey it, but as a campus we sincerely seek to stand by our commitment. The table was wild, they talked for twenty minutes how that is the greatest thing for a school to do, and how at our age alcohol can be so abused. Of course we could not talk about Wheaton's Covenant all night long, we had mojitos to get to. I could have sworn however that I saw everyone mix less alcohol in theirs from that point on.
Later this week I went to a local Brazilian restaurant for a drink and some conversation. The conversation was all about Whitworth, and I, having no idea which dorm was what and who taught this Jan Term class, I began to nod and make comments like "Yes, gotta love it" and "Warren South is the best." After a quick laugh all eyes were on me and someone asked, "What is that contract thing you are on at Wheaton?" And to my surprise I again was given the opportunity to plunge into a discussion about my campus's agreement to abstain from alcohol and other activities as a spiritual discipline. Now, Whitworth is a Christian school for all of you who don't know, and they too have rules against the abuse of alcohol, but, they are allowed to drink. Every single person who was there that night however, viewed our campus's sincerity and commitment as a strong testament. Who knows if any of them would feel differently if they were trapped in the Wheaton Bubble for four years. Most likely many of them would have something to say about the Covenant once they were under its bonds.
Well put! Isn't it funny how people tend to respect your beliefs and values when you're sincere about them? I think in those moments, you become the aroma of Christ- hated by some, but the aroma of life to others. Soli deo gloria.
ReplyDeleteOh Bucky, you make me smile. I'm proud of you for not driniking, I don't have the self contorl you do :-)
ReplyDeleteI need to send you a country album I forgot to get it to you while I was home!
Miss you!!!
Lots of Love,
Katelyn
Thanks for this, Buck Buck. I'm proud of you - I can't say I have been as unswerving in situations like that. Besos de amor.
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